Arborescent thinking and the exponential ideation effect

I recently discovered the concept of arborescent thinking.

For me, this was a revelation. Let me start with 2 things to try and explain what’s going on here, in my own opinion and experience.

Arborescent mind or thinking: When something is brought up or you think of something, you can see a wide variety of potential problems, solutions, ideas and even opinions related to the situation or topic. Think instant mind map that keeps on growing… and growing. It’s a bit more complex than that but that’s the gist of it.

Exponential functions: There is a legend around the game of chess that puts the exponential functions into a clear, simple image. The story goes that the inventor of the game showed it to the emperor of India. The emperor was very impressed with the invention and said they could ask for anything they wanted. They asked for a simple reward: 1 grain of rice on the first square of the chess board and then, 2 on the second square, 4 on the third square and keep doubling the grains of rice for each square until all 64 were filled.

If you don’t understand exponential functions well, you might have the same reaction as the emperor in the story: Well… that’s a pretty lame reward.

Reality is, it’s a pretty remarkable and impossible reward to fulfill. You see, the result would be: 18,446,744,073,709,551,615 grains of rice. You can get a more detailed explanations here: Wheat and chessboard problem

That’s a lot of rice. Not keto friendly for sure.

Where am I going with this? Well, this is what can happen when your mind operates like an instant mind map that keeps growing instead of a more linear thought process. You get an idea and from this idea, 2 more pop up and from these 2, 4 more pop up and so on. It can quickly spin out of control and explaining to someone what’s going on can prove to be very challenging. They might look at you and say: Hmmmm, I understand the individual words that are coming out of your mouth… I can see a few interesting concepts pop up here and there… but what… exactly… are you talking about?

Reality is? You probably don’t even know anymore because the original intent was lost in the exponentially growing list of thoughts and ideas.

You see, just writing this blog can be challenging because if you don’t make a conscious effort to stay on target with the original intent, you might get lost and start writing about something that came up in your mind along the way. The squirrel effect is real and it’s constantly with you.

The first step in using this “skill” better is to first recognize and understand it. Once you do and become aware of it, you will need to find your own methods to channel it.

For me, writing things down helps. But it’s far from enough. Being mindful and in the moment is key. 

That’s the real challenge, isn’t it? When your mind constantly has new thoughts and ideas like the energizer bunny, it WANTS more than anything to work on this new idea you just had and see what it has to offer… even though you haven’t even put the other one down on paper yet. It’s the shiny new thing! And they multiply quickly. And your mind just wants to explore and jump from one to the other. After all, it already figured out this one so why bother staying here?

Calming your mind, slowing it down has to be exercised just like you would with biceps in the gym. It takes patience, effort and consistency. Sounds easy, it’s not. But it’s fun.

Do not confuse calming and slowing with stopping. You shouldn’t try to stop this since it’s a beautiful thing once channeled properly.

If this speaks to you, I hope this blog helps a bit. And do your best not to worry about it… Anxiety will make it more challenging and it’ll become a vicious cycle. Learn to let go, enjoy the process, breath, calm yourself and have fun… great ideas and creations will come out of it.

Levers

When you start a journey to become healthier, somewhere along the way you’ll discover the importance of balance. And when you do, if you’re like me, you’ll probably fight it at first.

For those of us who have a perfectionist personality also usually comes the all or nothing attitude.

The more you learn about yourself the more levers you have to play with. Learning various ways to become healthier, physically, mentally and emotionally. It can and probably will be daunting.

You’ll go in full force, pulling down one lever to progress as much as possible, as fast as possible. This will inevitably bring another lever all the way up and cause imbalance.

No matter how coaches and teachers repeat it, us perfectionists stubborn people have to pull on a lever all the way down and get out of balance in order to learn. What matters is what we do with this new information and how we get back up and adjust the lever.

In my blog “Laser Focus” I slowly started to understand the concept of balancing thoughts and emotions. Since then, I read a book by Dr Joe Dispenza called “Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One”.

It’s an incredible book that made me realize quite a few things about why we react and act in certain ways and how to find balance.

With time, we learn to pull and adjust each lever slowly, one at a time. It requires a lot of trying, failing, patience, discipline and most of all, self love.

This image shared by Dr. Nicole LePera is the best I’ve seen to represent the various levers to play with and find balance.

Deconstruction

A few days ago I wrote The Perfect Imperfection.

I wrote a blog a day since. This is out of character for me for multiple reasons.

I usually want to review over and over. Change… rearrange continuously… Have someone review and approve. Then review it myself again and again. This can take days or even weeks. And then after weeks, doubt and fear of judgement sets in and I end up not publishing it at all.

After I wrote The Perfect Imperfection, I unconsciously started working on something that came up during one of my classes with my incredible teacher, Christina De Freitas. Deconstruction. Deconstructing some of my thoughts, emotions or some of my traits.

Last few blogs I wrote, I wrote quickly with minimal review and didn’t look for outside approval before publishing.  Slowly deconstructing my quest for perfection and my fear of judgement.

  1. 42 – The answer to everything – I wrote this on my 42th birthday. As simple as what I wrote is, I wouldn’t have published this a few weeks ago out of fear.
  2. No place I’d rather be – This one deconstructed both perfectionism and the fear of judgement. I would normally have taken days to film the perfect scenes and then days or weeks to cut and move pieces. I decided to let go… just go out and start filming. My nephew and I edited it in under an hour. What was important wasn’t really how the video looked, it was the intent and the message behind it. Before publishing the video, I was afraid of what people would think of the message or the result. But I overcame that irrational fear and just did it.
  3. Laser Focus – Here I talk about something I don’t understand well. I feared I would be all wrong in how I understand or explain it. Then, I just didn’t care if it’s right or wrong. It just felt right at the time and I went ahead.

Letting go, not overthinking and deconstructing some of our deep rooted thoughts and emotions is quite liberating.

Laser Focus

I have been fascinated by the mind and body connection lately. This is all new to me and it’s been very exciting.

During my morning walk I realized music is a catalyst for creativity in my case. If the right song is played at the right time, something happens.

It happened this morning with Lindsey Stirling’s song “The Arena” and that’s when I realized what was truly happening.

I was thinking about the mind and body connection and how mine have been out of tune for a very long time. Something that looks like this:

Lately, I’ve been learning more and more on the topic. I’ve learned to slowly align the two a little better. So I’ve been oscillating between what you see above and this:

This morning I realized that, from time to time, including at that particular moment, this happens:

When this happens, my thoughts and emotions are in tune and I become laser focused. Clarity and creativity set in and I have an infinite range of ideas, solutions, realizations to pick and choose from.

So far, this only happened with the right music and the right timing. When it does, it feels great. I am light as a feather, strong as an ox and laser focused. I feel like I could fly, move mountains and cut through metal.

I can’t wait to explore this more, it feels amazing.

What’s your catalyst?

42 – The answer to everything

Today I turned 42. Feels like 24.

According to Douglas Adams’s novel, The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy, 42 is the answer to the “ultimate question of life, the universe, and everything,”.

41 was already pretty intense so if this is true, watch out! Haha!

I feel younger, stronger and much wiser than ever.

You all can feel like this, it’s all about mindset…. 

Move your body, free your mind… Be happy!

“It might seem crazy what I’m ’bout to say
Sunshine she’s here, you can take a break
I’m a hot air balloon that could go to space
With the air, like I don’t care baby by the way

Because I’m happy
Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof
Because I’m happy
Clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth
Because I’m happy
Clap along if you know what happiness is to you
Because I’m happy
Clap along if you feel like that’s what you wanna do
Hey, go, uh
Bring me down, can’t nothin’
Bring me down
My level’s too high to bring me down
Can’t nothin’ bring me down”

Go get it!

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